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situation: when your parents including your siblings doesn't want for you the girl/boy you are dating, what will you do? how will you react?

dimple wrote:

situation: when your parents including your siblings doesn't want for you the girl/boy you are dating, what will you do? how will you react?

Edit: Di ko nabasa yung nakabold.

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There's so many things to do, kung walang date, usap-usap nalang muna kayo, you know(pacman), getting to know more deeply each other (lolz). How will i react? They know what's best for you, patience at pag-iintindi sa family din ang kailangan, siyempre iisipin nila "Unsa? Magdate ka? Baka mabuntis ka!" hahaha! Kaya siguro ayaw muna nila magdate-date ka hanggang sa darating yung punto you deserve to date-date na. Smile

Peace!

kuya mund, ang ibig nia ata sbhn, ano ggwin mo kung ayaw ng family mo sa bf or gf mo. un ata .wahehe..

@topic for me, if love ko tlga ung tao, i prove ko sknla na dpat mgng kami, kung ayaw tlga nila, bahala sila, diba, hindi naman cla ang mag sasama, kami man. hehe, and though parents knows best, id still go on for what i feel, kung mali man ako, atleast i tried. ^_^ un lang

Hahaha! Sige edit ko, hahaha! Mali nga talaga yung reply ko. Hahaha!

great! eh panu kapag nalaman nila yung past lifestyle ng boy/girl which is kind of magulo and miserable?! siyempre paglalayuin talaga kayo nun. so panu yun?

wat do u mean magulo? u mean ba , meron xang bad record?

exactly!

ummm di lahat ng tao perpekto.. pwede naman magbago ang isang tao.. dapat pakita ng lalaki na mapagkakatiwalaan at responsible cya.. pinoprotectahan lng tayo ng ating mga magulang..

for me , kung love mo ung guy, show mo tlga na kht may ganun siya na past, kaya nyang mag bago. sunod dapat c bf din, dapat ipkta din tlga nia na magbbgo tlga xa.

i could see and feel it naman.literally.. mahirap yun situation:*(

depende mn yan sau kung gs2 mu ung ka date mu kht meron xa bad record... waLa dn namn magawa parents mu kung ayaw mn diLa..

opo. tama c kuya belot. wla yan cla mgwa. and for me, kung may bad record tlga ung knksma ng ate ko, tae,. d ako pyag ah. pero kung mahal nia tlga. y not just be happy for them,. dba? and ung acceptnace, hindi lang for overnight, it takes a lot of time. kaya, be sincere. show nio tlga na love nio ung isat isa, tpos c bf, dpat willing to change.

Matanonog ko lang miss dimple kung ano ba yung past lifestyle ng boy? Past naman e pero gusto ko lang siya malaman. Siguro bisyo.

yap!
grand slam addict!)
6years sober na siya ngayon.hahaha.

ganun? wah. grand slam addict tlga. hehe. love conquers all tlga. bsta be happy always,. kaya ganyan ang parents ntn kasi gusto nila happy tau plgi, lalo na sau girl ka. hehe. good luck senyu.

ah mahirap nga yan... hehe.. kaw na Lng hanap ng paraan para mapabago mu xa... waLa dn namn magawa parents mu kung gs2 mu taLga xa.. ^_^ gs2 Lng namn ng parents mu na sa mas matino ka na guy mapnta dba? ^_^ intindihin mu na Lng cLa... sa huLi decision mu parin ang masunod..

6 years? Antagal na, sa tingin mo ok na ba sayo yun? Kung ok, explain ka lang sa parents/family mo about sa kanya. Pero kung ano mang mangyari sayo in the future, sarili mo dapat sisisihin mo.

dont expect na mapabago mo ang isang tao when u enter in a relationship.
mind you common mistake yan..
di dapat gnun...
kung papasok sa relationship its about acceptance..
kung ano xa gnun tlaga xa...deal with it

xegben wrote:

dont expect na mapabago mo ang isang tao when u enter in a relationship.
mind you common mistake yan..
di dapat gnun...
kung papasok sa relationship its about acceptance..
kung ano xa gnun tlaga xa...deal with it

+1. Ganyan din ang gusto kong mangyari.

tama man dibah...ahehehe buti mei nag agree sakin..

dimple wrote:

situation: when your parents including your siblings doesn't want for you the girl/boy you are dating, what will you do? how will you react?

dating pa man kaya? if you like him, why don't give it a shot. if your family's opinion is much more important than what you want then for me you have to keep it honest with the guy as soon as possible.

teka nalito na ako sa topic pero agree ako kay arben.
in the first place, gusto mo yung guy since you two are dating constantly, at alam mo nman ung past nya, ibig sabihin you've already accepted whatever record he had.. hindi rin tlaga tama na babaguhin mo xa for the sake of other people. and one
thing is certain, hindi mo na mababago ung past nya..
but keep in mind na your past, will not determine your future. God will..

you can tell him honestly na ayaw ng parents at siblings mo,
if he really likes you then he will pursue, at ang changes
manggagaling din sa kanya at magiging decision nya..

tsaka dimple dba you're a Christian? the best thing to do is,
pagpray mo xa. don't jump into commitment yet kasi bka nagiging impulsilve ka lng.
God will make things clear for you,
kung pra sau xa He will allow things to work right.

Be friends, get to know each other well, you can do it even with other friends, pero have your way pa rin wag na lng muna exclusive, that way, hindi mo rin nadidisobey ang parents mo..

GOD IS SO GOOD!
he is pursuing my mom na this week!
i'm praying still for our relationship.
thank you sa lahat ng comments niyo.

PS: after 6 years of being sober, he's a renewed christian now.