family decisions

let the elders decide, but don't let them decide for you..

hmm sa akin naman if we will have a major family talk
now or soon maybe i'll be more openminded and not let
my pride get in the way. dati i always think of my sake
pero ngaun if it will give happiness to one of my family members and they'll have a good benefit from it i'll take chances.
they've always been supportive of my decisions and letting me
learn from my mistakes pero they never left me alone. if i need
some comfort i can always count on them that they'll hear
me out. i'll do the same then.

yung decisions ko for my family, hanggang sa kung saan lng ako apektado,

at yung decisions na gagawin nila for me, is until kung sila lang din sila apektado.

hhhmmm if it's something na all has to decide on o di kaya eh life-threatening, everybody has a say... if it's about work or career-related, advices lang... but hands off sa talagang plan....same with usual day to day problems and relationship-linked conflicts...

well, sila mama na ang nagadecide, kasi daw, bata pa kami, hidni rin daw namin maiintidihan. ganun. pero there are times na gusto ko rin magsugest2, especially when it's about my grandparents, about their health and etc. siyempre naman, i'm part of the family tas aakakarelate man din ako kung yun ang pinaguusapan nila. i care about my grandparents too. waa.

hhmmm latest? yung pag-acquire ng property sa bansalan na nagdecide ang family na wag na lang ituloy... hehehe sabi pa ni mama kelangan na daw kami ikunsulta ng kapatid ko kasi of legal age na raw kami... so yun, apat kami nagdecide...

when we met about plans for the boarding house this june... some boarders will be transferred to other rooms kasi and some have to vacate daw...

they always respect my decisions.. and i always listen to them too.. i get their oponions, advices, etc.. yet, pagdating sa peronal, career, etc.... i still have my last say.. but as logical and rational as how i weighed and analyzed thier advices, opinions, and suggetions.... they know my capabilities on how i think with things.. they know me as a very strong person and that i have my own state of mind...dati, of course they decide things for me...but i definitely know naman it was the best for me din... my parents are not strict.. at di cla ngkulang sa pagsasabi samin....
ngaun na malalaki na kmi, when it comes to family decisions.. every one of us has its word...

very wel said ading... even in business ventures or plans about what to create as projects kasali na kami... very humbling siya na very gratifying... we're so lucky to be treated as adults by our parents...